Tuesday, January 17, 2006

This Week

Monday & Tuesday

I'm over the flu and when I can sing a whole song without coughing or needing to blow my nose, I'll be one happy lady.

I've gotten some stuff done, mainly on the mystery writer's course. I'm almost done with the first lesson. There are eight lessons and if all of them take as much time as this one has, I doubt I'll finish in the 6 week time period they've allotted. However, I have all the materials and can take the class a second time, if I need feedback. Or I can just finish on my own.

That's all I got written on Tuesday. I've been kind of in a funk this week. Low energy due to last week's flu. It's one of those that hangs around awhile, but I'm feeling a lot closer to normal now.

Wednesday & Thursday

  • I've got reading for the two classes I'm doing.
  • I need to do a crit for Jean.
  • I need to start my Morning Pages journal again.
  • And clean off my desktop.
I can't find anything. That's enough for today.

I don't like having my blog be a to do list, but right now, it seems like getting things done is my hardest thing. The holidays are over. I'm finally done with the flu. Catching up with things is the main thing on my brain, thus, the to do list.

Friday, January 13, 2006

Catching Up

Happy Friday the 13th

So, does it mean it will be an extra bad day since it's a full moon, too? Not for me. I've always had good luck on Friday the 13ths. How about you? Are you even superstitious?

Flu

I'm feeling much better, thanks.

Uber Challenge

I've been getting some stuff done, despite being sick. I've got most of the reading for the mystery course done. And I've written Morning Pages. It's not a lot, but doing that little bit has helped me to stay focused and not just let it drift off.

Today:

  • Morning Pages
  • Finish Lesson One in the mystery course.
  • Put three things on the calendar


It feels like I should be writing a longer post today, like there's something nagging me in the back of my head. But I don't know what it is. So, rather than padding this further to no good purpose, I'm stopping.

Wednesday, January 11, 2006

Flu

The cold turned out to be the flu. I spent most of yesterday and last night sleeping off a fever. I'm feeling a bit better. But I'm planning to mostly veg out between naps. See you all when I'm feeling better.

Tuesday, January 10, 2006

A Duh! Moment & Update on the Uber Challenge

A Duh! Moment:

Your Career Type: Artistic

You are expressive, original, and independent.
Your talents lie in your artistic abilities: creative writing, drama, crafts, music, or art.

You would make an excellent:

Actor - Art Teacher - Book Editor
Clothes Designer - Comedian - Composer
Dancer - DJ - Graphic Designer
Illustrator - Musician - Sculptor

The worst career options for you are conventional careers, like bank teller or secretary.


Ok, so if my talents lie in creative writing, why doesn't it say "Author", not "Book Editor?" But it does say, "The worst career options for you are conventional careers, like bank teller or secretary." DUH!

Uber Challenge Update

I mentioned earlier that I don't want the blog to be "Uber Challenge" only. But I do want to keep track of how I'm doing. Posting about it keeps me on track. I don't procrastinate as much if I'm posting because I know at least one person is following whether I do what I planned or not. I decided the best way to do that is to write a regular post, like I've been doing, and put an update post at the end. Right now, while I rebuild some habits, I'm doing simple posts like quizzes and memes. I have a couple of essays about writing I'm working on, but it's going to be a while before they're done.

I did the Morning Pages yesterday. That's the first habit I want to build, so I'm doing it first each day. I went to the B&N University site and took a look at the course. That took longer than I expected. I didn't have time for the other two things on my list.

Today's list:

  • Write Morning Pages
  • Do the B&N coursework for today.
  • Put the three most critical things on the calendar.
  • Type in two pages of handwritten notes.


That should be doable because I don't have any errands or appointments today.

Monday, January 09, 2006

My Monday Post

Monday:

I'm not a happy camper, as the cliche goes. I've got my third cold since Thanksgiving and I'm doing more sleeping than getting my planned stuff done. It's really annoying because I used to sail through winter with no colds, no flus, nothing. But this year's apparently my year to come down with everything I get exposed to. This will pass and meanwhile, I'll just take smaller baby steps for the Uber Challenge.

Today's baby steps will be:

  • Write Morning Pages
  • Set up the first three things onto my calendar
  • Type two pages of handwritten stuff into the computer
  • Go to the B&N University web site and see what I need to do for the mystery writing class I signed up for.


That's about all I'll have time for, what with taking a nap so I'm not falling asleep on my music stand tonight at Ladyesong rehearsal and getting what I need ready to go. We're changing seasons, so I need to pull up the email and make sure I don't forget anything.

Another Fun Thing From My File:

I have a bunch of fun things I stole from other people's blogs and never got a chance to post. I forgot to note where I got some of them from. If it was your blog, let me know in comments and I'll credit it with a link. Here's one:

Your Birthdate: November 28

Your birth on the 28th day of the month (1 energy) adds a tone of independence and extra energy to your Life Path.
The number 1 energy suggest more executive ability and leadership qualities than you path may have indicated.
A birthday on the 28th of any month gives greater will power and self-confidence, and very often a rather original approach.

Unlike much of the other 1 energy, this birthday is one that endow with the ability to start a job and continue on until it is finished.
You may prefer to use the broad brush, but you can handle details as well.
You are sensitive, but your feeling stay somewhat repressed.
You have a compelling manner that can be dominating in many situations.


Most of this is surprisingly accurate. I don't know if these come out that way because they're so general or what. The only one that's not accurate is my feelings staying repressed. I don't keep my feelings hidden in any way.

So, if you're doing the Uber Challenge, how's it going?

If you do the Birth Date thing--does it fit you?

Thursday, January 05, 2006

Uber Challenge Part 2 & Yet Another Quiz

Uber Challenge Part 2

I don't want the blog to become the Uber Challenge blog, but I do want to report my progress for those who may be interested.

I learned a long time ago that the best way to tackle habit changes is with baby steps. So, I'm not trying to do it all at once. I started writing Morning Pages yesterday. I've been making a list for the calendar. It's kind of time-consuming to set up the calendar, but once it's set up, it's easy to maintain. I'm planning to set up the calendar this afternoon, assuming I finish the "life stuff" I need to get done. I have choir rehearsal tonight, so finishing up after dinner isn't an option. Tomorrow will be soon enough, if I don't get it done today.

I have some typing left over from my last couple of handwriting sessions to do before I can do new words. I write the very first draft by hand and then type it into the computer before editing it. My goal is to get all the setup done before Monday. Then I can start writing new words on Monday. I really want to finish chapter 2, now that I'm more than halfway there. I also have some setup and a small change to the end of chapter one to do because chapter 2 made part of chapter 1 no longer make sense.

Another Quiz from Andi

I liked this one. It's simple--one question and all you do is pick the word that appeals to you. I love the Rune I ended up with. It suits where I am in my life. Or maybe it suits my life in general, since I've always strived to grow in all areas of my life.

HASH(0x8e5ff88)
What is your rune stone for today?

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Here's the meaning:

Berkana - GROWTH
Rebirth A Birch Tree

We grow as the tree grows,
putting out new leaves in Spring.
And through it all, the soul
remains hidden, adding ring upon
ring upon ring.

Normal: Delve into things deeply, with care and awareness. Resistance must be dispersed first, then work may be begun. If you have dark corners, clean them out now. If you need help to cleanse the corners, seek an expert. Only then can the harvest ripen.

Inverted: There is interference with growth now. If you feel disheartened for not taking the right action, relax. You may have the chance to act again. Examine your motives. Are you putting your wants before the wants of others?

Tuesday, January 03, 2006

Uber Challenge

Jo Leigh has a challenge for writers who want to work on specific areas of their writing. Details are in her blog. I signed up when she posted on Romancing the Blog. The post about the Uber Challenge is dated December 28, 2005.

When I signed up, I hadn't decided what I wanted to work on this year, but I knew I'd figure it out before I had to start doing the challenge. I'd considered doing characters and how to make them real on the page, show their development, etc. But that's not my biggest challenge right now. My biggest challenge right now is regaining the discipline of writing regularly. I was writing regularly, nearly every day, not too long ago. Now I hardly ever write. I know it's at least partly caused by the depression from having lived with my emotionally abusive mother for a year and a half. I know it's partly because during the past two years we've only had three-month temp contracts, so we couldn't count on having income beyond that and make concrete plans to move into an apartment. That uncertainty wears on you. Yet, I'm not usually a depressed person. If a miracle occurs and we get back on our own, with enough money to live on, I'll be so not depressed. But this has affected my writing and I need to systematically try things to deal with it.

It's affected my writing in two ways. First, it makes me think too much about the possibility of earning real money from my writing. That makes me freeze up because I know the statistics on that one happening any time soon. Second, the worry affects the creativity. I don't write my best stuff when I've got worry sitting in the back of my brain. So, rather than try to write with the worry going on, I've let the writing go, hoping each time Paul gets another contract job that it will become a regular job and we can get past this stuff.

I realized that it's making me crazier to not write than to try to deal with this stuff. My hope is that the Uber Challenge will give me a structure and support for my plan. I have three things in my plan at the moment. I'll adjust it if these don't work well for me. The first thing is to get back to writing Morning Pages every day before I start working on my book. The second is to write every day Paul is working. The third is to be more disciplined about using the calendar on my computer to keep track of my writing plan, since I don't usually set word count or page count goals that are easy to keep track of.

Julia Cameron, in her book The Artist's Way suggests that you handwrite, on 8-1/2"x11" paper, 3 pages of anything that comes into your head. You're supposed to do it first thing when you get up in the morning. The theory is that it gets all the junk out of your head and clears it so you can create. She calls that "doing Morning Pages". I've been doing it for a number of years, but during the holidays, I've gotten out of the habit. In the past, it's helped me deal with stress, which is why I picked it as one step in my plan.

I'm planning to write every day Paul works. It's dumb for me to plan to write when Paul's home. Those are the days when everything else has to happen, since I don't have transportation so that I could do some of it after I'm done writing. Paul's been working a lot of overtime, so if he goes in on Saturday, I'll just go ahead and use it as a writing day.

I need to have specific goals for those days. I plan to use my usual "finish this scene" type of goal for most days. But if I'm feeling too overwhelmed or worried or depressed, I have set a backup goal of 500 words. I know that building habits can be hard. I know that when you're building a habit that's long-term, you do slide into your old ways. So, it's important to have a backup plan to get back on track. My backup plan is to catch up on weekends and holidays. The possibility of having to give up some of my limited social time and hubby time is powerful motivation for me to follow my planned schedule. I'm unusual in that I'm an extroverted writer. I can hole up and get the work done, but I have to have things in my life that involve other people afterward or I get cranky.

I've been having a lot of trouble keeping track of what I need to do. Not just writing goals, but with my everyday life. For example, I don't have a desk to keep track of mail and business papers and that stuff. So it's hard to keep track of the few bills and letters and stuff I need to deal with. I lose track of what day it is, especially during the times Paul hasn't been working. I've decided that I need to use the calendar software I have and put everything in it that I have to do, including things like the phone number, if I need to make a phone call. I need to make doing the life stuff as simple as possible. I'm bad at updating software, so my writing goals and records will go on the calendar, too. If I set up an Excel file or something, one or the other won't get updated. But I think I can manage to keep one program up-to-date.

The last step of the plan is to evaluate it on a regular basis. I need to set a time every week to see which parts of the plan I'm following regularly, which, if any, I'm not, and tweak it, if I need to, in order to keep going. That's also the time I'll use to update the calendar for the next week.

That's my plan for the Uber Challenge. If anyone else is doing an Uber Challenge, I hope you finish the whole year and meet your goals. Asking yourself a few questions might help you to be more successful. Have you made a plan? Does it have a backup in it, in case you can't do the original plan? Do you have a way to evaluate your plan and see if it needs tweaking? Those are questions that have helped me in the past when I've worked toward long-term goals. Good luck to us all.

Monday, January 02, 2006

Last Thing Meme

This one's from PBW's blog.

Last Book Read: In Pursuit of the Proper Sinner by Elizabeth George

Last Live Music Show Seen: West Side Story at the American Musical Theater in San Jose.

Last CD Purchased: I hardly ever buy CDs, except I'm a sucker for Christmas music. This Christmas I found a Christmas CD by Barry Manilow on sale for $6.99. Turned out to be a good deal. Even Paul likes it.

Last Thing Cooked: Spaghetti with Italian sausage and mushroom sauce.

Last New Thing Eaten: Teriyaki Chicken Burger at Red Robin

Last Thing Bought: The Buffy the Vampire Slayer Collection. I didn't know it had a $20 discount, so that was a pleasant surprise when they rung it up. It's not actually the very last thing I bought. It's more like the last fun thing I bought. If you consider that my husband bought the shirts for work, then the last thing I bought was a replacement for my electric skillet. I finally found one that was large enough and had about 3"-deep sides. It was on sale, too.

Last Gift Received: A Peet's coffee card from a bunch of online friends who got together and spent mucho bucks so Paul and I could get away from our stressful living situation and spend some time together. I have great friends!

Last Piece of Clothing Bought or Received as a Gift: Sorry, this one's BORING. I needed undies and that's what I bought. Socks are next. lol

Last Embarrassing Experience: Probably the huge sneeze right after our church choir finished the last anthem at the Christmas Eve service.

Last Totally New Experience: The closest I can think of is singing with Ladyesong. I've never sung in an all women's group before.

Last Foreign Country Visited (if any): Does LA count? Joking aside, the only time I've ever been out of the US was when my family spent an afternoon in Tijuana, Mexico on a childhood vacation.

Last New Bird Seen: I have no clue. I think our neighborhood's been taken over by crows and seagulls.

Last Big Achievement: I don't do big achievements. I do tiny ones. So, managing to sing all the concerts and caroling and church services I agreed to do, despite fighting off piggyback colds, is the one that comes to mind.

I'm not tagging anyone specific for this one. If you do it, post a link in the comments. I'd like to see what you came up with.

Wednesday, December 28, 2005

Buffy and Unique Characterization

Andi's doing quizzes again. This one was the superheroine quiz. I ended up as:







You Are Buffy the Vampire Slayer


"We saved the world. I say we have to party."

What Superheroine Are You?



I wasn't surprised. If you know the heroine, you can answer the questions so you get that heroine. I've been watching Buffy lately. I borrowed the DVDs from my son and I started making him give me two seasons so when I finished one, I'd have the other one ready to go. I just started season six. I'm seeing why people liked it so much.

As a writer, I intend to watch it again, this time to study how the characters develop and change and how the uniqueness of each person is portrayed. It's rare to see a show or read a book, or watch a film where only the character who says a line or bit of dialogue could have said it. If someone not in the cast read the script aloud, I'd know who was supposed to say each line. The lines for Buffy don't sound like Willow's lines. Even if they're expressing the same idea, Willow doesn't use the same words as Buffy. Even though they're both teens in the same era, Xander doesn't sound like Oz. Showing characters as being themselves, and not interchangeable with other characters, is a tricky thing to do. It's something I've been working on in my writing, lately.

Just for fun, I did the quiz again as if I didn't know what the answers would lead to. I ended up with:







You Are Trinity


"Touch me and that hand will never touch anything again."

What Superheroine Are You?



I can live with that. Trinity's pretty cool. lol

Friday, December 23, 2005

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year

That about says it all. I'll post when I post. My life is going to be crazy for the next few days. Here's wishing you and yours the best Christmas ever. A Happy New Year, too. (And the musician in me unconsciously paraphrases Christmas songs.)

Wednesday, December 21, 2005

A Couple of Christmas Quizzes

I got these from my friend Andi's "friends and family" only blog. At her request, I'm not posting a link. But I had fun doing them. I admit, I'm a Christmas junkie. I love the holidays and don't hate the commercialization as much as the "What Carol Are You? blurb indicates. I also don't hate the secularization of Christmas. I don't expect everyone else to believe what I believe or to celebrate the way I do. I wish people would take the time to decide what matters to them about the holidays and do that, instead of doing what they think they're supposed to do, even if they don't enjoy it. And that's my Christmas wish for everyone. A happy Christmas, or whatever holiday you celebrate, because you did it your way.

What Christmas Ornament Are You?

christmas garland
You are the Christmas Garland.


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What Christmas Carol Are You?

Hark! The Herald Angels Sing
You are 'Hark! The Herald Angels Sing'. You take
Christmas very seriously. For you, it is a
religious festival, celebrating the birth of
the Saviour, and its current secularisation
really irritates you. You enjoy the period of
Advent leading up to Christmas, and attend any
local carol services you can find, as well as
the more contemplative Advent church services
each Sunday. You may be involved in Christmas
food collections or similar charity work. The
midnight service at your church, with candles
and carols, is one you look forward to all
year, and you also look forward to the family
get together on Christmas Day.


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Monday, December 19, 2005

What's Happening

Today is a bit of a letdown, as the end of the Christmas concert season usually is. The concerts were great. They went well and we had a good time doing them. It's so wonderful to be doing music again. We'll still be singing on Christmas Eve. And Paul and I are going to be in town for Christmas, so we're going to be part of a small group to sing at the service on Christmas Day. Then we get a break until January, when our church gears up to celebrate its 50th anniversary. We have a break from Ladyesong, while our director is out of town celebrating the holidays with her family. Then we start working on the repertoire for the Spring concerts.

It's going to be a quiet week around here. Paul's off working and he expects to be doing 10-12 hour days. I have mixed feelings about that. I like the overtime pay, but I miss having him around. It's nice to feel that way after 27 years of marriage, too.

We have a holiday tradition in our family not to have traditions. We look at our resources, our living situation, and everyone's schedules and plan what will work best this year. Then we do that and we don't have the hassles, stress, fights, etc. that plague so many people who try to do the "picture perfect" holiday thing every year, no matter what else is going on. It looks like this year my family will celebrate Christmas the day after, as long as our youngest son doesn't have to work. The plan is to go out to breakfast and exchange gifts in the restaurant. If Chris has to work earlier than usual, we'll change the plan to accommodate his work schedule. All we need now is one evening where Paul gets home early enough to zip to Target for treats and cards to fill the stockings Tammy made for us last year and we'll be ready to go.

I hope you all have a great Christmas and that next year is a wonderful one. If you celebrate some other holiday, enjoy what makes it special for you. If you don't celebrate one of the "official" holidays, make one up because everyone needs to celebrate and have a good time to offset the gloomy weather of winter. (Can you tell it's gray and rainy these days out here?)

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

Mixed News & Recipes

Mixed News

Paul's been hired for a three-month contract job, working through a temp agency. It could become permanent at the company where he's actually working, but we're not counting on it. We've been burned by that before. We've learned that until you've signed the paperwork for the actual company, instead of the temp agency, you have to plan for the possibility of not having a job. So, we'll continue the job hunt and save what we can toward either moving back out on our own or another period of unemployment. However, it will be a miracle if we can find a place we can afford on his salary because the places that take cats are more expensive than those that don't and rents have gone up a couple hundred dollars a month in the past eight months. The state turned me down for their training program. So, I'm going to have to update my skills on my own dime, if I'm going to try to make up the difference between what he's making and what it really costs to live here. Can't afford that right now, so it's on hold.

I'm catching up with stuff we didn't get done the past few days, since we haven't been home very much. Mostly we've been off doing errands. I've been at my older son's house helping him with his English portfolio. He needed that fresh set of eyes that can catch the spots where you didn't actually say what you thought you said, the typos, punctuation glitches, etc. that you miss when you've read it yourself for the umpteenth time.

I suspect it's going to be tomorrow before I can get to catching up with typing in the handwritten stuff. That's been on hold because I can't type if I'm not here and I've not been here so much lately. So, the handwritten stuff's been piling up. Maybe by the end of the week, I'll have an updated word count and can change my progress bar.

And we went to see Chronicles of Narnia. It was exactly what it should be. I loved it.

Recipes

Andi asked me for my Cranberry Sauce recipe. The recipe originally was from Cooking Light Magazine. I combined two different recipes, changed the amount of spices, and added a touch of my own. I can't remember whether the original had apples or pears, but it was my idea to do both.

Wen and Lisa asked me for the pot roast recipe that's the easiest I've ever made. It's an unusual recipe because pot roasts are usually braised in a bit of liquid over fairly low heat for several hours. This recipe is done at a high heat and you don't put any liquid in the pan. The high heat eliminates the need to sear the meat before you cook it, so prep time is really short. The onions have a lot of liquid in them, which forms the base for the braise. The fat from the chuck roast combines with the onion juices to caramelize the onions so they're sweet and golden brown. This recipe originally came from Gourmet Magazine. I changed some of the instructions to fit my "pinch of this and pinch of that" cooking style.

Cranberry Sauce

Ingredients:

1 package fresh cranberries
1 Granny Smith apple
1 Bosc (red) pear
1 cup sugar
1 cup water
1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
1/4 teaspoon ground ginger
1 dash of ground nutmeg

Instructions:


Seed, then dice the apple and the pear into pieces about the same size as the cranberries. Put everything in a medium saucepan. Bring to a boil over medium-high heat. Turn the heat down and let simmer until the apple and pear are tender and the cranberries start to pop. Cover the pot with plastic wrap and chill before serving.

Notes:

1. You can peel the apple and pear, if you want. It doesn't matter to the recipe, so do what you prefer.

2. The cranberries may start to pop before the pear and apple are tender. It's Ok. Just keep cooking until the pear and apple are done. Tender, however, doesn't mean mushy. A toothpick should go easily through a piece, but the piece shouldn't fall apart when you stab it. There should still be some firmness to it.

3. Adjust the spices to your taste. The original recipe had so little spice that you couldn't tell there was any. I figured why waste the spices if you can't taste them? So my ingredient list has double the spices of the original.

4. You can put the sauce in a bowl before you chill it. I serve my food from the kitchen, so I serve it from the pan and save myself some washing up. The sauce will thicken as it chills. It's not going to jell, like jelly or gelatin, but it won't be soupy, either.

Braised Beef and Onions

Serves 8

Ingredients:

1-1/2 pounds onions, halved and thinly sliced
6 garlic cloves, minced
Chuck roast (See Notes for specific information)
Salt
Pepper
Ground allspice
2 tablespoons chopped Italian parsley

Instructions:

1. Preheat oven to 400ยบ .

2. Pat meat dry. Sprinkle top with salt and pepper. Lightly sprinkle allspice over the meat and rub it in.

3. Put half the onions and garlic in the bottom of a 13x9-inch pan or a Dutch oven. Place the meat, spice-coated side down, on the onions.

4. Sprinkle the meat with salt and pepper. Lightly sprinkle allspice over the meat and rub it in.

5. Put the rest of the onions and garlic on top of the meat.

6. Cover the pan tightly with heavy-duty aluminum foil.

7. Roast for an hour. Turn the meat over, scraping the onions and garlic off the top of the meat into the pan. Pick the meat up to spread the vegetables evenly underneath. Roast until the meat is very tender. (See notes for timing.)

8. Take the meat out and carve it against the grain.

9. Use a slotted spoon to put the onions and garlic into a sieve to drain off the fat. Mix the parsley in with the onions.

10. To serve: Put the meat on the plate and spoon some of the onion mixture on the top.

Notes:

1. The recipe calls for 2 2-lb. boneless roasts, 1-1/2-inch thick. I never found any that size. I used a 4-pound, bone-in roast and a 3 pound boneless roast. It took about an hour per pound, plus an extra half hour for the bone.

2. I usually use a Dutch oven that has a lid. I put the lid on top of the foil, which gives it a better seal. That's optional, though. The recipe will work fine if you just use the foil.

3. The onions won't caramelize properly if you leave them on top of the meat the whole time. That's why I suggest scraping them off when you turn the meat.

4. The parsley is optional, but it adds a nice color to an otherwise drab, brown dish. And it has a fresh flavor. Be sure you get the Italian parsley, not the regular kind.

5. The meat can be braised 2 days ahead and reheated. This makes it a good dish for company and the flavors will blend and intensify when it sits. Be sure to remove the fat before you store it for serving later. Because the liquid doesn't cover the whole dish, the trick you use for soups and chilis of taking the congealed fat off after it's chilled dosen't work for this recipe.

Mangia!

Friday, December 09, 2005

So Much for Writing Every Weekday

Condolences

I learned some bad news this morning. Frank O'Brien Andrew and his wife drowned in a boating accident over the weekend. He was a buddy on Forward Motion. I will miss him. I send my condolences to their families and friends.

The Regular Stuff

I can't believe it's been over a week since I posted. Then I look at how the past week has gone and I can see why. I haven't been home much. Errands, rehearsals, concerts--both those I'm performing in and those friends are performing in, holiday parties, Christmas caroling, lunch with friends, pot luck dinners, car repairs and keeping up with the everyday stuff, helping out my kids with rides and stuff, and it goes on. That's what's been going on for the past week and what's happening during the upcoming week. I love being busy. I love getting a chance to sing for people, to watch my friend's performances, to spend time with people I don't see as often as I'd like to. But it wreaks havoc with my writing and blogging and keeping in touch with my online friends, who are important to me, too. So, I'm going to post when I can and after December 18, my life gets slower again because I only have Christmas Eve stuff to worry about and we're not having rehearsals that week.

Upcoming local concerts you might enjoy, if you're in the area:

Tonight, December 9 at 8 PM--San Jose Chamber Orchestra at Mission Santa Clara, on the Santa Clara University campus. You can check their website for contact info to find out if tickets are still available.

Sunday, December 11--Christmas Concert at First United Methodist Church in Campbell at 4 pm. The address is 1675 Winchester Blvd, Campbell, CA

Sunday, December 18--The Prince of Peace choir, Ladyesong, and soloist Layna Chianakas will present their Christmas Concert at 7 PM at Prince Of Peace Lutheran church in Saratoga. Info is on the web site.

Thursday, December 01, 2005

Quizzes

Tambo got it from Bob. And several other people whose blogs I read have picked it up. I thought it was funny, so here's my Generic Smut Novel Character:


Which generic smut novel character are you? (With somewhat relevant pictures!)

The Well-Endowed Kitchen Wench

Look, if you’re going to keep slipping in the rain, at least stop wearing those revealing cotton gowns.

Personality Test Results

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Jean found this one via Monica Jackson's Message Board. This one was fun and I came out as my favorite superhero.

Your results:
You are Superman
Superman
80%
Spider-Man
75%
Green Lantern
70%
Robin
62%
Iron Man
60%
Batman
55%
Supergirl
53%
Hulk
45%
Wonder Woman
43%
Catwoman
30%
The Flash
25%
You are mild-mannered, good,
strong and you love to help others.
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Tuesday, November 29, 2005

The Requisite Post

I started an essay yesterday. But it was my birthday. My husband took me out to lunch and we had the usual errands and I had Ladyesong rehearsal and so on and so on. So I didn't get it finished. I looked at it. It's not going to be ready to post today, either. It's one of those things where you know what you want to say, but the words aren't coming out right. That's all in a day's work, though, when you're a writer.

My husband also bought me a really cool coffee mug. It's this year's holiday mug from Peet's, a local coffee house chain. The sentiment seems especially appropriate for a writer. It says, "One cup is worth a thousand words." Do you think if I drink enough Peet's coffee in my Thousand-Word mug, I'll write thousands of words? It does seem to tug at me to write words.

Oh, and lunch was wonderful. We went to Max's. I had a baked potato stuffed with veggies and garlic shrimp. It comes with a Caesar salad. Paul got a Philly Cheesesteak sandwich. I traded him some salad for a few fries. Perfect.

Both of the choirs I'm in sang "Happy Birthday" to me. It was way cool to be serenaded in multi-part harmony. And they were in tune, of course. What a concept! I wish corporations that own chain restaurants would ditch the idea that waiters have to sing unless they're going to give one of them a pitch pipe, so they start on the same note, and teach them how to sing a melody on key. I guess that's a common musician's rant. The off-key singing hurts our ears.

My mom's gift will go to celebrate the holidays with my family. We haven't had everyone together since last summer. So, I'm using my birthday money to take the whole family out to dinner sometime soon. We just have to coordinate schedules, which becomes extremely difficult after they're grownups and have lives.

Tomorrow is the end of the line for all of you NaNoers. Congratulations to all who have completed the required 50K. I'm cheering on all of you who are close. You can finish! And a great big cheer to all who started and got words. Any words you got means you succeeded. So, if you didn't finish, there's always next year. You get more words next year. And more the next. And eventually, you finish. That's what happened to me, anyway.

Thursday, November 24, 2005

Happy Thanksgiving!

I'm glad you all decided not to ask me food questions after all. I've had so many errands the past two days I haven't had time to post. I need to get lunch in a few minutes, then start some cooking. I'm looking forward to this. I love cooking Thanksgiving dinner. So, you all enjoy your Thanksgiving celebrations. I think we're going to make this a good one, despite the difficult times we're facing. We still have a lot of blessings in our lives. Like--family and friends. Our good health. Being able to participate in music again. My book's going pretty well. I have a lot to type in, then you'll see how well it's going because I can move the progress bar. We've been blessed with generous friends who have given us tickets to concerts this year. A friend is sending me a laptop and then I can type in the stuff I write away from home while I'm away from home and it won't pile up. These simple things that make life special are what I'm grateful for this year. What are you all grateful for?

Happy Thanksgiving!

Monday, November 21, 2005

Thanksgiving Week--Food Seems Appropriate

Here in America, Thanksgiving week makes us all go nuts about food. How do you cook a turkey again? After all, it's been a year since you last cooked one. Maybe longer, if you rotate the cooking among various relatives. People make themselves crazy worrying about whether the food is absolutely perfect. Of course, the Thanksgivings that get talked about are the ones where it isn't perfect.

My grandmother used to go all out. She made her ravioli dinner and a full turkey dinner. And along with three kinds of pie, we got cake and ice cream because the family celebrated my November 28 birthday whenever Thanksgiving was every year. We got overstuffed and one lucky family got to take the ravioli leftovers home. We didn't care about the turkey leftovers. We'd get more turkey at Christmas. It was the ravioli that were special.

I look forward to Thanksgiving because I love turkey, and so does my family. I got in the habit of cooking it several times a year, especially since it's always one of the cheapest meats you can buy. I discovered that it's super easy to roast a good turkey. The cooking magazines keep adding steps--brining or dry brining, sticking herbs under the skin, putting stuff in the cavity, trussing--or not, high heat roasting, grilling, and now, (shudder) deep-frying. I guess it gives them things to write about. But now they're writing about the simplest way to roast a turkey and have it turn out well. I can see how it can be confusing to someone who hasn't done it before. What makes Thanksgiving harder than a normal dinner isn't the turkey. It's that you're cooking for more people than normal and making more courses and different types of dishes than you usually do.

So, in addition to the turkey, there's gravy and pie crust to obsess over. And yeast rolls or biscuits, if you've never made them from scratch before. And doing the salads and veggies fancier than usual. And cranberry sauce and yams and nontraditional recipes that are family favorites. And appetizers and first courses, if you're doing a super formal meal. It can seem overwhelming.

There are ways to make it all much easier, so you can focus more on what you're thankful for and less on worrying about what needs to be done next to get dinner on the table. The first thing to do is to look at the menu. If you're not having a huge crowd, maybe you don't need so many different dishes. People get too stuffed if you put out too many appetizers, so keep them to a minimum or skip them, if there's not much time between when they get there and when you serve dinner. You don't have to serve a soup course, either. If only one person likes a particular dish, maybe you can skip that dish or have the one person who waits all year just for that dish make it. You can save yourself a lot of work by cooking the turkey, stuffing, and gravy and having everyone pot luck the rest of the meal.

Another thing is to do as much ahead of time as possible. You can make rolls in advance and freeze them. You can do the same with pies. Cranberry sauce is really simple to make and it's better if you make it 1-2 days ahead of time and keep it in the fridge. You can caramelize thawed pearl onions a day ahead to add to a green veggie. You can toast sliced or slivered almonds a day ahead to put on a veggie dish. Tosted pecans are great for sweet potato dishes. You can cook bacon bits in advance and use them to liven up rolls, potatoes, or veggies. Grated cheese is another simple ingredient that you can add to rolls. Fresh herbs can be used in any dish.

The last trick is to buy some things preprepared. Rolls and desserts can be purchased at a bakery and they're just as good as what you can spend a lot of time making yourself. You can buy a complete meal from many grocery stores and some restaurants, but we were disappointed in the food when we were invited to dinner at someone's house who did that. The food was bland and way over-salted. The turkey was dry.

My plan for this year, because I'm in my mom's kitchen, is to get the rolls and dessert premade. I'm doing the cranberry sauce on Wednesday. I'm not doing giblet stock for the gravy. I'm using canned, no-fat, low-sodium chicken stock, which I'll use to baste the turkey. That will give it more of a turkey flavor in the gravy. I'd love to cut one more course and just do stuffing, because we don't have that many people to feed. But my family insists on potatoes and I only get stuffing once a year.

So, does anyone have any Thanksgiving cooking questions they'd like answered? Or recipes you'd like me to post? Write me a note in the comments and if I get any, I'll post them as my posts for the next two days.

Thursday, November 17, 2005

Serious About Writing

First, I'm feeling much better, thanks! Second, Paul didn't get the job. He got a very nice rejection email, though. That's unusual in today's business world and we appreciate that he took the time to write. On to a topic I've been thinking about for a couple of days.

Serious about Writing

A bunch of us writers were chatting about writing. (What else?) We were observing how much we'd all grown in our writing during the past couple of years. One woman said that she noticed how much faster she'd improved after she "got serious about writing." I don't remember who it was that said that, but we all agreed. Then we started discussing what it means to be "serious about writing". It's different for each person, I think.

Up until a few years ago, I mostly wrote when I felt like it. When an idea hit or I wanted to play with stories for my own pleasure. I got better, but not very much better. I don't think it was just because I wasn't writing a lot that kept me from growing, either. I think it was that "serious" vs. "hobby" thing.

When writing was a hobby, I'd get a story idea in my head. Then I'd write whatever came to me that seemed to fit the story. I wasn't trying to accomplish anything other than amusing myself. That attitude reflected itself in my writing. For example, I didn't try to make sure I'd put everything on the page because no one else was going to read it.

I also didn't try to discipline myself to write at any particular time. I just made sure my writing stuff was available and wrote when I felt like it. Writing had the same place in my life as my needlework projects, cooking a new recipe, learning a new flute piece, or any other of my many hobbies and interests.

There's nothing wrong with that. I think writing stories for your own amusement is fun. I still do it, especially when I want to play with a concept and see if there's really a story there. Or it's something I know isn't going to sell--like sticky, sweet "fluffy bunny" fantasy. I love writing that when I'm feeling down. There's something about writing colorful, sparkly stuff that brings my mood back up.

But in the back of my mind, that ten-year-old girl who loved Nancy Drew kept nagging at me. She always wanted to write stories for other people to read. I researched the business of publishing. I asked myself some important questions about what I wanted my writing to be. If I managed to sell my work, there would have to be major changes in how I approached my writing. Writing would be a job, not just a personal source of amusement. My friend, Wen, talks about noticing how hard her husband worked, how many hours he put in. And she decided she could do that, too. All of the writers I know, and the ones whose blogs I read, work very hard. I knew I'd have to do that, too. I'd have to face deadlines. I'd have to be a business, with all that boring record-keeping. I'd have to be the main publicity for my stories. I wondered, "Do I want all of that or do I just want to play with stories?" I dithered around, doing the "what if thing" writers do. Eventually, I asked myself the question that answered all the other questions. "If I live to be 90, what would I regret the most?" My biggest regret concerning my writing would be not giving writing for publication my best shot. If I gave it my best shot, but never sold, I'd be OK with that. I wouldn't be OK with not even trying.

By this time, we were online and I started searching for things about writing. I discovered Holly Lisle's Forward Motion and for the first time in my life connected with other people who wrote stories. I took classes and tried to apply what I learned to my writing. I bored Holly, Sheila, and all of the more advanced writers in chat with endless questions, which they were gracious enough to answer. I still bug all the writers who know more than I do with endless questions and they're still gracious enough to answer. Other published authors who deserve lots of thanks from me are Zette, Wen, Tambo, and Catie. (Note: For links to the blogs of some of the generous, but not yet published writers, who have been so very helpful, see my sidebar of links. There are too many to post in this essay.)

One thing all the pros agree on is that you read regularly. That's no problem. I've been a bookworm since I was three and kept asking my mom what all the words in my books were. I've been reading in many different genres and lots of nonfiction ever since. That's the easiest requirement for me, as a writer, to do. I don't read the same way I used to. I still read for enjoyment, but I also reread and take apart books I think are especially well-written to see what the authors did. Looking at books in that way has improved my writing.

Writing regularly, the "butt in chair" thing, is the one thing absolutely every successful writer says you must do. It's the very first advice you'll get if you ask a published writer how to do what they do. I figured that if every pro said it, I ought to do it. So I did. Some people insist you must write every single day, not even skipping holidays and birthdays and other things that make life worth living. I'm not in that camp, in case you couldn't tell. I've noticed that what's important for my muse isn't writing the same number of words absolutely every day without fail. I always see my muse as a 4-year-old girl with brown pigtails tied with red ribbons. She wears red overalls, a white T-shirt with red trim, white socks and red tennies. Luckily, she has a grownup brain, because I deal with grownup subjects in my books. And like any child, what's important to her is that I write when I say I'm going to write. It's as if she's waiting for me and if I don't show up, she gets disappointed and won't come out to play the next time. Although learning to do the "butt in chair thing" regularly, rather than whenever I felt like writing, was important to my development as a writer, it wasn't the main thing.

The main thing that made a difference was a distinct shift in my attitude toward my writing after I "got serious". To me, getting serious was more about that attitude shift than anything else. I changed my writing goal. Instead of my goal being "having fun", it became "becoming the best writer I can." Surprised? I bet you were expecting my goal to be "getting published". Getting published is a dream. Writing the best I can is a goal. So, that became my focus. And I think that focus is why when I "got serious" about my writing it began to improve faster. That's what getting serious about my writing means to me. What does it mean to you?

Monday, November 14, 2005

A Very Short Post

Someone writing a list of things bloggers should and shouldn't do said you shouldn't write posts telling people you're not posting today. He exempted people writing blogs mainly for family and friends. Since I fit in that category, at least for now, I'm going to happily assume you all care about why I'm not posting as regularly as I usually do. Today, it's because I've got what Paul had. I feel lousy. I'm crawling back to bed as soon as I can take NyQuill without overdosing the meds. See you all when I'm better.